20 January 2019 – Human Relations Day
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Corinthians 12:1-11; Matthew 22:34-40
There are many popular and biblical references to the
idea that our relationship with The Lord through Christ is the single, most
important relationship we can have. It
is primary; it must come first but also cannot be “last” if it is to inform other relationships. In that broad context, then, this primary relationship
cannot be exclusive.
Just as St. John expressed in his epistle, “If
you say you love God but hate your brother, you are a liar” (1 John 4:20), we understand the way by which we may fully express our love for
The Lord is found in how we relate to and treat others, “loving our neighbors as
ourselves” as our Lord commands – even (maybe especially) those we
don’t really like.
I will grant there are those whose mere presence in
our lives can be downright toxic, pure poison.
These are the ones who can tax our patience and test our religion. These can be detrimental to our spiritual,
emotional, and even mental well-being.
Yet even these relationships, challenging though they may be, can be
redeemed and restored – even strengthened – when we understand and embrace our Spiritual Gifts; these talents and strengths
given by The Lord “as He chooses” (1 Cor
12:11) – and for His purposes.
When we last gathered, we talked about the Sacrament
of baptism as a means of grace; a
profoundly sacred moment when Heaven
directly interacts with humanity.
Baptism, as a means of grace,
is the way in which we can experience our Lord’s mercy – as we are welcomed into
the Holy Covenant, confirmed in our faith, or serve as witnesses to this Sacred
Moment.
Today we will share another means of grace in another Sacrament – Holy Communion – by which we
experience yet again His mercy in His means to feed us and strengthen us in our
Journey of Faith, affirm our faith, and connect us to one another and to
Christians around the world to the One Body which is Christ.
For both Communion and baptism, there is also the
requisite “sending forth” with a strong sense of conviction and sacred purpose. One does not merely leave worship! We are given much more than we often realize
so we have much to give; to go into the world to love and to serve The Lord –
by loving and serving one another … even those who will not love nor serve us
in return.
The late Christian author and redeemed atheist, C.S.
Lewis, once wrote, “Next to the Blessed
Sacrament itself, your neighbor is the holiest object presented to your
senses.” Remembering Jesus’ parable
of the Good Samaritan as answering the question, ‘Who is our neighbor?’, then,
we hear in Mr. Lewis’ observation that what we see and serve as holy and sacred is the one who is in distress – that equally sacred moment when we most resemble Christ Himself by
giving fully of ourselves for the sake of another. It doesn’t matter if we know them or even
like them. What matters is whether we
are willing to love them as The Lord loves them – and us.
The Spiritual Gifts we are endowed with are given for
this very reason. We are not gifted from
Above so we can make a living; we are gifted by His Spirit so others may find a
life worth living – and living well! It
is, as St. Paul wrote to the Corinthians, that we are so endowed by these gifts
“as
the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good” (1 Cor 12:7). That is, we find yet another means of grace in a profoundly sacred moment when we come to know our
gifts, embrace our gifts, and put our gifts to good use in the lives of others
in the Name of The Lord and His Church.
I’ve shared before that the Roman Catholic Sacrament
of “holy orders” had been taught in my childhood catechism classes as that
Sacrament of giving oneself fully to Christ and His Church through the
priesthood or becoming a nun or a monk.
Yet over time I have come to believe there are many sacramental, very sacred moments in our lives which must also be given a) to remind us He is always
with us, and b) to discern
those moments for where they will lead us next.
In that period of discernment, then, we become more acutely aware not
only of His Presence but of His Gifts – AND – His call; not necessarily to pastoral ministry but certainly to ministry
nonetheless. It is as so often expressed:
the pastor is the pastor, but the
congregation becomes ministers in and
through baptism and the Gift of the Holy Spirit.
But where to go from baptism or confirmation or even
Holy Communion can be anyone’s guess – and even personal desire (or lack
thereof) – if we fail to discern our particular Gifts which will go a long way
toward directing us; for having the Gift, whatever it may be, is not about the
Gift itself. It is entirely about where
the Gift will take us. Spiritual Gifts
are means to a greater end, like
baptism and Communion, prayer and fasting – so why should these not also be
considered means of grace?
Identifying our Gifts, however, is no easy task. Nothing worthwhile ever is. Our Spiritual Gifts are not – ARE NOT – our impulses! I don’t think they come to us easily or
naturally; and if what we think are our Gifts serve as means only to our own
ends, we are either not using these Gifts properly or we have completely
misread what The Spirit is calling us to.
When Jesus turned water into wine, as St. John wrote,
and “revealed
His glory” (John 2:11), it
was no impulsive, magic-trick-moment only for the sake of the moment. The ministry of our Shepherd and Teacher would
move from that moment and into the lives of The Lord’s people – further revealing
the Holy Father whose desire was – and still is - to reveal Himself in our
lives.
The Spiritual Gifts with which we are each endowed are
intended for no less. So failing or
refusing to discern and acknowledge these Gifts cheats not only ourselves but
those whom our Father means to touch. We
cannot “love The Lord our God” or “our neighbor as ourselves” with anything
less than what He has entrusted us with – “as He chooses”.
I dare say, dear friends, He has chosen you – and He
has chosen everyone we will come into contact with beyond this moment. And He has done so to the glory of the
Father, the Son, the Holy Spirit. Amen.