28 July 2019
Jeremiah 31:31-34; Luke 11:1-13
It has been said, “We are most like beasts when we
kill. We are most like humans when we
judge. We are most like God when we
forgive”. (William Arthur Ward)
We Christians are fond of saying forgiveness is the
core of Christianity. While forgiveness
is an essential component of the Christian faith, the greater Truth is
forgiveness is the core – and the heart - of our Father in heaven. Whether in the First Testament or the New,
the heart of The Father is steadfast.
More than anything, He wants a dynamic, ongoing relationship with His people,
but there is also great purpose in that relationship; He means for us to live
into our calling and our gifts so others can also become all they are created
to be. It is about the Fullness of Life –
in this world and the next.
Yet we must also come to know this: if we are not
forgiven, we cannot be of a mind and a heart to offer forgiveness. Jesus does teach that if we will not forgive
the offense of those who have harmed us, “neither will your Father forgive
you”. So it would seem that in
order for us to be forgiven, we must first learn to forgive. Given the depth of pain and the extent of
harm many have experienced, that is a pretty tall order AND a very bitter pill
to swallow.
A few years ago I found an old rosary I had long
forgotten about. One afternoon when all
was quiet, I went into the sanctuary to pray.
Trying to remember the proper rosary order, I finally came to The Lord’s
Prayer which, like the Hail Mary, is repeated several times.
At first I was just mechanically reciting the Prayer. After a few recitations, I began to replace “thou”,
“thee”, and “art” with the language I am more familiar with. Soon it became my own prayer rather than the
Church’s. Once I was able to make the
prayer my own expression and in my own language, I began to recite it more
slowly, more thoughtfully.
Verse by verse, line by line, I began to see some
elements of that Prayer take on a whole new meaning – or maybe it was the clarity
I needed at the time; the clarity we all need.
Especially the part about asking forgiveness “as we forgive
those who trespass against us”.
Rather than, “Forgive us our
trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us”, it
became, “Forgive my sins, Father, so I may be freed to forgive
those who have hurt me”. It didn’t
come easily at first because I kept trying to remember the Prayer in its proper
order. Sort of like trying to sort things
alphabetically, you get somewhere in the middle and have to stop and say, “ABCDEFGHIJK
…” until you come to the letter you’re looking at. I know I’m not the only
one!
At any rate, the order became less important. “Forgive us our trespasses AS we
forgive others”. And as Luke’s
version expresses, “Forgive us our sins, for (because) we ourselves
forgive everyone indebted to us”.
The first one expresses a simultaneous thing happening; that AS
we forgive others, we are forgiven in that moment. But Luke’s version seems to presume we have
already forgiven someone; and because “we ourselves forgive everyone
indebted to us”, we may expect to be forgiven our own offenses – that is,
if we have truly repented.
Carrying the burden of past mistakes, sins we hope
will never be discovered, sins we cannot escape because of our own consciences,
is an overwhelming albatross about the neck that weighs us down. We cannot function as we should, as we must,
because something is holding us back. And
this is why it matters: until that weight is lifted, we cannot – we CANNOT –
be free to become what we are created to be.
We are often more consciously aware of what we’ve done
than of who we really are (the price of conscience), and it is the
same principle which applies to those who have hurt us. We are more aware of the harm they’ve done,
perhaps the things they still do, than we are aware of who they really
are. I get that there is some
wisdom in believing one acts like a jerk because one really is a jerk, but I
also think this can be a more shallow glance than a good, long, hard look. There must be more to that person – just as
there is more to us.
It seems to be the whole point and purpose of
forgiveness to aid us to self-discovery, becoming more aware of who we are
created to be rather than what we choose to do.
If the very essence of our being is found only in the One who created
us, we must come to know why we were created to begin with. As I have long held, there is no such thing
as an accidental or incidental life. There
can, of course, be an unintended pregnancy, but that biological thing does not diminish
the sacred value of that life which is called forth.
The psalmist expresses the depth of this concept: “It
was You who formed my inward parts; You knit me together in my mother’s
womb. I praise You, for I am fearfully
and wonderfully made. Wonderful are Your
works!” (139:13-14).
Do we see it?
Can we see the praise of the “wonderful works” wrought by
His mighty Hand? Our very being as the “wonderful
works”? No, we don’t see that often
enough. Not if we are not fully aware of
who we really are, who we were created to be from the beginning. Not if we are unwilling to see even our
enemies as His “wonderful works”.
It is true enough that forgiveness relieves us of the
burden of pain and anguish we have suffered in the past. It is also true that our willingness to forgive
is directly connected to the forgiveness we seek and need. More than this, however, is the reality that
until we break completely free from our own misdeeds and the misdeeds of
others, we cannot live into what The Lord had in mind when He breathed His
Life into us.
We believe in forgiveness – but not simply forgiveness
for its own sake or even for our own sakes.
There is a calling found in forgiveness which can never be
fully realized until we repent, turn away from our past, and let go of our
misdeeds and the misdeeds of others and pay more attention to souls – the better
part of our being, the essence of God With Us – because that is who we really
are, and it is the Life we are called into.
Always to the Glory of The Father, the Son, the Holy
Spirit. Amen.
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