26 May 2019
1 Corinthians 6:12-20; John 15:12-17
In one scene in a movie, love is described as “biochemically
no different than eating large quantities of chocolate”. What is
most telling is the context in which it was said … and by whom. It was
the character of “Satan”, and he was trying to convince someone that feelings
of love are overrated.
To a degree, I suppose there is some truth to it. Too often we confuse love with how we happen
to be feeling at any given time, and
I’ll grant you there is no warmer or more comforting feeling in knowing we are
loved. In Jesus’ statement about the true measure –
and value – of love, however, He is not strictly speaking about being loved or
even feeling loved. He is speaking about the ultimate expression
of the greatest love there can be – our willingness to do even for those who will not – perhaps will never –
appreciate it or return the favor.
Jesus certainly knew this. As we are reminded
when we celebrate Holy Communion, Jesus knew His disciples would bail on Him
and He knew Judas was about to hand Him over to the authorities. Yet He
continued with the celebration of true and genuine freedom, not only
celebrating the Passover by which the Israelites had been set free from the
bondage of slavery but offering the means by which we may be set free from bondage
to sin and death.
Yet the idea of expressions of love received AND given
is often reduced to a false notion of “legalism” which seems to suggest love is
precisely an emotion to be felt rather than a commitment to the New Life into
which we are reborn. Obedience to The Lord as acts of genuine love for
Him, in modern theology, has been deemed unnecessary. After all, The Lord
loves us "no matter what”, right?
Freedom, like key biblical terms as “grace” and
“love”, is horrifically misunderstood and misappropriated in our modern
society. Too many think of freedom as “license” to do as one pleases with
no regard for how our actions may affect others. Yet the late John Paul
II said it best; “Freedom consists not in doing what we like, but in having
the right to do as we should”.
This makes me think of a recent article I read (History.com)
about what is arguably the very first Memorial Day commemoration. The first national
Memorial Day was in 1868 in Arlington VA, but the first record of an observance
is said to have taken place in 1865 in Charleston SC following the Civil War.
It is said there was a mass grave at a makeshift
Confederate POW camp in which Union soldiers had been buried, but the freed
slaves of the area who knew about it arranged to reinter these Union soldiers
and give them each a proper burial. The act was one of gratitude, mindful
as these freed slaves were of what the Union had fought against.
They could have more easily walked away. They were freed following the collapse of the
Confederacy, but the gratitude they must have felt in that moment compelled
them to stay, to do this thing that would honor the war dead who had given all
they had to give for a principle few understood.
But here is the point of discipleship altogether; it
is not always necessary to physically die for a principle, but it is always
necessary to fulfill the Royal Law: to “love one’s neighbor as
oneself”, to put aside the freedom to indulge one’s
own desires and, instead, give oneself over to “serve one another in
love” (Galatians 5:13).
So then perhaps we are compelled to ask ourselves if
obeying Jesus’ “commandment to love one another as I have loved you” (John 15:12) can be reduced to a feeling or if there is more to
fulfilling this “commandment”. We often
say we cannot help how we may be feeling
at any given time and we know circumstances can change in an instant,
circumstances which may surely change the way we may be feeling.
It follows, then, that Jesus is not talking about feeling a certain way. Indeed, this portion of John’s Gospel ends with Jesus saying, “I am giving you these commands so
you may love one another” (vs 17).
Not so “you might” or that “you must” but in “you may”. Though the statement has the force and
authority of “commandment”, there is something even more compelling than
this. Jesus is freeing His “servants” and calling them “friends”!
Some have suggested that in the whole context, it may
have become necessary for Jesus to release
His “servants”
so they could become much more than mere followers
who could do no more or less than whatever Jesus might do in their presence or
tell them to do; to be set free from being mere observers. In being set free from perhaps a self-imposed
bondage of blind obedience without understanding why, they would have been less
than capable of truly loving one another and those whom they would soon
serve.
The same principle applies to the freed slaves in
Charleston. It may be they had been
enslaved to the Confederate POW camp in Charleston and had been forced to dig
the mass graves, but in their newfound freedom they chose to give each of these
Union soldiers a proper burial. There is
a profound difference in being forced
to do something one might otherwise not do – and being freed to do that which
love compels us to do. If there was any
measure of “feeling” associated with
these men and women choosing to do what they felt needed to be done, it would
surely have been a feeling of deep and abiding gratitude.
In this nation and in the Holy Church, this kind of
love is in exceedingly short supply, evidenced by our apparent determination to
malign and destroy any who disagree. The
Christian faith has been reduced to a simple formula by which one is either “saved”
or not. While there is real power from a
justified heart which has been set free from the sins of the past, we don’t
always feel it nor do we feel a need to express that genuine,
God-given power in appropriate ways, ways that will glorify Him and serve
others.
As Paul expressed to the Corinthians (1 Cor 6:12-20), freedom is hard and must
be handled with the greatest of care because with that freedom comes great
responsibility. We can do anything we
choose to do, but we do not often consider or even care how our actions will
impact others. This freedom can never be
taken for granted lest we forget we have been set free not for the sake of
indulging our own desires but so we can truly, fully, freely serve those who
need it most.
There can be “No Greater Love” than this: to give
of ourselves for the sake and the well-being of others. It is not about being “tolerant”; it is about
being faithful … to Him, to His Commandments, and to His Church. In the Name of The Father, The Son, The Holy
Spirit. Amen.
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